Material things are like the wind, they come and go and can be a burden. So I did you a favor by throwing that vase on the floor.
You've got to see it from our perspective. Which is the perspective you should have been always using anyway. Things need chewing. Things need gnawing and things need to be thrown around. It's what we do, we are parrots. Just plan on further renovations and we can all get along fine. I really do not want to have to go over this again.